If you are going to be successful in creating the life of you dreams, you have to believe that you are capable of making it happen. You have to believe you have the right stuff, thet you area able to pull it off. You have to believe in yourself. Whether you call it self-esteem, self-confidence, or self-assurance, it is a deep seated belief that you have what it takes ---- the abilities, inner resource, talents, and the skills to create your desired results.
BELIEVING IN YOURSELF IS AN ATTITUDE
Believing in yourself is a choice. It is an attitude you develope over time. Although it helps you if you had positive and supportive parents, the fact is that most of us had run-of-the-mill parents who inadvertently passed on to us the same limiting beliefs and negative conditioning they grew up with.
But remember, the past is the past. There is no pay off for blaimng them for your current level of self-confidence. It's now your responsibility to take charge of your own self concept and your beliefs. You must choose to believe that you can do anything you set your mind to- anything at all- because, in fact, you can. It might help you to know that the latest brain research now indicates that with enough positive self-talk and visualisation combined with the proper training, coaching, and practice, anyone can learn to do almost anything.
If you assume in favour of yourself and act as if it is possible, then you will do the things that are necessary to bring about the result. If you believe it is impossible, you will not do what is necessary, and you will not produce the result. It becomes the self-fulfilling prophecy.
BELIEVING IN YOURSELF IS AN ATTITUDE
Believing in yourself is a choice. It is an attitude you develope over time. Although it helps you if you had positive and supportive parents, the fact is that most of us had run-of-the-mill parents who inadvertently passed on to us the same limiting beliefs and negative conditioning they grew up with.
But remember, the past is the past. There is no pay off for blaimng them for your current level of self-confidence. It's now your responsibility to take charge of your own self concept and your beliefs. You must choose to believe that you can do anything you set your mind to- anything at all- because, in fact, you can. It might help you to know that the latest brain research now indicates that with enough positive self-talk and visualisation combined with the proper training, coaching, and practice, anyone can learn to do almost anything.
If you assume in favour of yourself and act as if it is possible, then you will do the things that are necessary to bring about the result. If you believe it is impossible, you will not do what is necessary, and you will not produce the result. It becomes the self-fulfilling prophecy.
